dazzlingMist

there is a time when we think that we are the only one in this world who carry a heavy load. we think that no one will understand what we are feeling and other can not help us.

in another time, we think that we had done the best one for others. sometime we forget that as the subject of condition, we have others as the objects. in that condition they also had thought and opinion about the situation. they also have feelings and emotion. sometime we forget to understand they feelings.

in one side, if we do the right thing we will show that, ‘ni lho, gw bener.’ gw ga bermaksud demikian. apa gunannya gw ngerasa kaya gitu klo di satu sisi gw harus merasa kehilangan sesuatu yang penting? gw ga bermaksud bahwa gw benar. ga ada maksud sama sekali. i didn’t think about it.

klo dipikir-pikir, i feel so damn sad after i faced the situation. yang lain (other person in the situation) pasti juga ada perasaan dan emosi. even though they didn’t feel the same way with me, they also have hurt. i should have to be wise.

maybe our way is right, but we have to understand that the way of other people react to something is considered by their condition.  we have to understand it, even though it does out of sense. we have to be more patient in handling other or something. i think it is one part to be > how to say it in English?? dewasa.

one of my friend told me, ” everything that we’ve given for other, someday will be the most precious things, it is possible to believe.
So…
Stay to lovin’ and carin’ each other..even its just an ordinary thing. Keep on lovin’ ”

i am looking forward for that moment. what to do now is be more tolerant, be more patient and wiser. as a part of my journey. to be a better me. i am so blessed to have friends who beside me and make me fell so positive

.ap.